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The more you give , the more you receive, how does it work?

Posted by Hong Curley on May 14th, 2012

By Loving Earth

Many people feel they have given so much and receive little or nothing in return. This principle of “ the more you give, the more you receive” does not work for them. If you are on the same boat, evaluate your situation, re arrange your mind’s thought patterns and refocus on your spiritual principles.

Giving is a natural outflow of inner fulfilment and abundance. If the state of fulfilment and abundance is the flower, then giving is the fragrance. But often, “giving” is used as a mean to satisfy your ego.

Many people give out of the need to be loved, to be accepted by the society, by their conscience, by fear of being rejected , or the need to feel important and superior. The problem with this type of giving is that it is not authentic, it is not the joy of the heart and so it can not be fulfilling in its very nature.

You are giving in exchange of some kind of recognition or acceptance and often, when you don’t get anything back, you become resentful and disheartened and then feel that Life is not fair to you .

This very condition is what stops the spirit of unconditional giving coming back to you. When your giving has a hidden agenda, you take yourself out of the full circular flow of life’s true abundance.

Remember, when your cup is empty, strive to fill that cup first. When your tree is weak , strive to grow into a strong one first. This is your first and most crucial task before you can do anything else. When you give out of an empty cup, you will soon dry out. When you offer your weak trunk for people to lean on, you will soon fall down. Giving out of the state of need will never fulfill your heart’s desire to be loved. Your heart’s desire to be loved can only be fulfilled in the divine process of fulfilling your soul’s purpose- —-to realise, know and experience God in this incarnation. This realization is not something we will get to in a distant future, but is reached by the very process we called “ spiritual growth and inner development” within each one of us right here, right Now.

Happy Creating

Hong Curley

Growing into a God Tree

Posted by Hong Curley on May 8th, 2012

By was_bedeutet_jemanden

You were born as a God Seed. Like an apple seed, it is destined to grow into an apple tree and has the potential to grow into an infinite acres of orchard for centuries and produce millions upon millions of apples. You, the God Seed, it is destined to grow into a God Tree and has the potential to grow into an infinite filed of love, peace and compassion and cause millions upon millions of souls being touched, healed, and enlightened by your light and wisdom.

We can count the number of seeds in an apple, but we cannot count how many apples are in a single seed. Your potential is beyond your mind’s capacity to imagine. Just as a single apple seed has the potential to turn into infinite field of orchard for centuries to come, one single human soul, just like yours, can grow to heal and enlighten generation of humanity.

Give to life as God has given Her Life to you.

Your purpose in life is to find this God Seed within, grow it the best way you can, and produce fruits that express the totality of His Divinity. Nothing is more important and fulfilling than this single task.

God Blesses Your Heart

Posted by Hong Curley on May 2nd, 2012

By elycefeliz

I AM the LIGHT of LOVE and Wisdom. I nourish my soul by fulfilling my destiny. I live from my Heart and I feel that my Heart is blasting with the Passionate and Compassionate Energy of Unconditional LOVE for ALL Life…. I live in a state of abundance and overflow.

There is nothing that Love and Forgiveness can not heal… I AM Healed at all level of my life through the Power of LOVE… I TRUST in the POWER of the ONE Infinite Creator to Harmony and Balance… I am One with you. When one of us rises, all of us rise. When one of us falls, all of us fall.

Where does the air start and where does it finish? Is there any separation of the air in one room to the air of another? No, there is only one air, one source. If you believe you have a soul, then are you alone or are you part of the One soul?

I feel an infinite connection to the One soul. I am a mini part of it, but I am infused with the infinite power of the One. I nourish this soul by becoming more conscious, by embracing life in all its forms and the formless, in this process, I am fulfilling my destiny.

Seeking true love in awareness

Posted by Hong Curley on April 22nd, 2012

By jhontumbelaka

So many people out there are crazily searching for love without success. We say we don’t want to hate, but there are so many people out there hating so much. What is going on? Why are people more capable to hate than being capable to love? Once a teacher told me that the reason why human can hate so much and so easily is that no one teaches us how to hate. So our hate carries the authenticity, carries the truth of how we truly feel, we feel it in our gut, in our bone. Our hate is true, authentic, and real. But our love does not have this type of authenticity. We were taught how to love by people who do not know what love is. So our version of love is just skin deep, it is not real, it is an illusion. It does not have its authenticity and so it is fake. If you honesty exam your life, you will see clearly that when you take away what you expect of the other person, then your so called love disappears.

To find God, is to find Love. To find love, is to find yourself.

Posted by Hong Curley on April 18th, 2012

By Inha Leex Hale

How can you find God if you can not even find yourself?

You are part of God, you are the creation of God. The only way you can find God is by totally loving and accepting yourself, by doing so, you are loving and accepting God, searching for God will come to an end, because you have found him/her when you find yourself.

Happy Creating

Hong Curley

Be at peace with yourself and the world will be at peace with you.

Posted by Hong Curley on April 10th, 2012

By lednichenkoolga

I am very content, and I feel very beautiful because I am at peace with myself. I am at peace with my beauty, my ugliness, my virtues and my vices, my so called goods and bads. I am at peace with my total being.

I love myself, whoever I am, whatever I am. I am no longer against any part of myself. I feel totally perfect in my imperfection.

Some days, I am an angel, some days, I am a devil. I know whether I am an angel or a devil, it is all a judgement against myself. The truth is that I am just the way I am, angel or devil, sweet or sour, it is all part of me. I must accept them all, love them all without judgement, then there is no more inner conflict. Then everyone in me can live happily ever after.

It is when I embrace the higher, and deny the lower, a war starts in me.

The truth is all lower can be transformed into the higher, like the beautiful lotus is birthed through the mud. You can not deny any part of you. Every part is necessary for the other part to exist and be transformed.

I am made the way I am. First , I have to accept this fact, in accepting myself totally, unconditionally, unconditional love is born in me.

Heal your relationship with your parents.

Posted by Hong Curley on March 30th, 2012

By Verónica R.

My mother hated me. She used to hit me, abuse me, and she spent her whole life trying to control me.

When she was very angry, she called me “ a worthless piece of shit.”

She has been unwell lately. So I got her to come and stay with my family. I have been giving her massage and Acupuncture treatment every night.

My son said to me today, “ Grandma had not been very nice to you, you did not seem to resent her in any way.”

Here is what I explained to him. I am sharing my insight in the hope that my perspective can help you heal your relationship to your parents.

My mother only appeared to hate me. Her hatred to me is a form of love, a twisted, retarded form of love that an unconscious person knows .

I have chosen to live a more conscious life, so I have the responsibility to go beyond my ego’s reaction , and love her through my pain. This is how pain can be transformed into compassion.

In an unevolved human mind, love and hate are the same thing; they are just delivered in a different way.

When she is deeply in her own psychological pain and when she is trapped with her deep guilt, then love is expressed as hatred towards the person she wants to love.

When she needs to be controlling, again her controlling is just her fear of inadequacy in disguise. All controlling people are weak, unconscious people who have no authentic power.